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I need advice: a friend of mine asked "A" if he liked me and I heard all the tea and never the answer, so I asked him. He basically said he just wanted to be friends, but he might like me then continued to say very sweet things about me. My other friend "M" thinks we like each other..and idk! The problem is not with "A" but I think I like "M"! I also think I might be demisexual (and biromantic) so if anyone could give advice on how to figure out my feelings, it would be greatly appreciated!
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5 years ago"M" and I have a very close relationship but she is recently taken..
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5 years agoIdk, sometimes we can start the feel attracted to close friends and think we like them...it already happened to me but idk if itβs your caseπ Do you imagine the 2 of you (you and βMβ) together? If so, I think you should risk...
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5 years ago@β’Chloeβ’ thank you! I'm not exactly looking for a relationship but if I were I might see us together. I don't want to ruin our relationship because it means so much to me! "A" previously liked "M" and they were still close friends, even after "M" knew so I might have a chance? There has also been a lot of tea between "M" "A" and other people, so I don't want to add any more stress into "M"'s life rn.
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5 years agoYeah, you have feelings but you donβt wanna ruin your friendship.
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5 years agoBut considering the previous situation between βAβ and βMβ and their current friendship, i think your friendship wonβt be ruined in case the feeling aint mutual...it can be a bit weird at the start, but it will come back to normal eventually
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5 years ago @β’Chloeβ’ yes, tysm! π€
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5 years agoYw! And I hope everything will go well for youπ
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5 years agoIf anyone is seeing this; "A" doesn't like me romantically and I'm still figuring out me and "M". "M" was very kind to me as I texted "A" last night. "A" did say very sweet things last night π (and "M" was so so kind in helping me catch my breath, she actually pushed me to text "A" and I'm so grateful that she did π)
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5 years agoOne more update (prob no one cares haha) but I hung out at "M"'s house and had so so much fun! I felt pretty gay the whole afternoon; I laid on her bed next to her, kinda resting my head on her shoulder and it was so nice. (Also our other friend "B" was dancing and I said something along the lines of "haha b is just dancing by herself" and "M" said "I would but your so comfortable" skskssks; I was so gay lmbo)
Oh and she is pansexual and, as I've said, I think I might be biromantic-demisexual π€
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5 years ago@#BTSismylife! Thanks haha, that's actually something "M" has said to me on many occasions lmbo
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5 years ago@lowercase d haha, you'll find the one!
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5 years ago@#BTSismylife! Not true π
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5 years ago@#BTSismylife! No but okay π
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5 years agoIdek if anyone will see this but I told "M" I like her! She is incredible and told me that she loves me from the bottom of her heart and nothing could change that (plus other things ofc)
As I figured she doesn't return 'romantic' feelings but loves me platonically. We've been even closer lately and I'm very proud of myself for finally being honest with her.
"M" is helping me with the "A" situation and basically I've/we've he prob doesn't like me. I think I just want someone to like me. :/
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5 years ago@#BTSismylife! @β’Chloeβ’ I've added some important update(s) if you care haha
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5 years agoIβm glad you told her and that youβre still friendsπ
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5 years ago@β’Chloeβ’ yes, me too. We've actually become the closest I've ever been,,with anyone. It's lovely to have such a close friend and crush to go to for anything, especially when you get to hug them multiple times a day ;) No but really, I love her sm.
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4 years agoSo one last update. My crush for her hasn't gone away, actually has grown. So I told her that and she said she already knew and nothing would change. We're super close friends and tell each other everything. She still has her lovely bf, and "A" found a gf as well. And he admitted that he had a crush on me! But yeah, it all is working out, and it has helped my mental health sm βΊοΈ
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4 years ago@β’Chloeβ’ thanks for helping me from the beginning! My past self really appreciated it, and so do I now!
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